Not knowing the baby’s gender this time around has been a lot tougher than I anticipated. When I was pregnant with Eli, we knew we wanted a gray and white nursery. We purchased a white crib and everything else was easy to buy regardless of gender. We knew Dax was going to be a boy, so that took care of all of our furniture worries for him. Since this is most likely our last baby, we decided keep the gender a surprise. We enjoyed the experience and the surprise more with Eli than we did knowing Dax was a boy(sorry Dax). The only problem this time around, is if our last baby happens to be a girl, I want some pink in that nursery.
We decided to keep the room black, white, gold, and pink if it is a girl, and make it black white and gold if it is a boy. Since we don’t want to wait until the baby is born to order all of the furniture, we thought it would be a good idea to paint Eli’s perfectly good crib that he used when he was a baby. I love the crib, and it is in pretty good shape. We decided on a pink that we loved for the walls, and David painted the crib the same color. We went with Benjamin Moore Gentle Butterfly. I am not into girly things, so this color is perfect because it is not too pink. The crib turned out gorgeous and will look so good in this room once the walls are painted pink!
Now, if it is a boy, we decided to purchase a whole new crib all together. Since Eli’s was white, and Dax’s is black and white, we went with an all black crib. It’s actually the same crib as Eli’s. We figured that it is inexpensive enough to just return it once the baby comes if it is a girl, and if it is a boy, it’s here and ready to go!
We are getting closer and closer to meet this baby, and we can’t wait to see if it is a he or she!
One thing that we never replaced in Dax’s nursery (aka new baby’s nursery) was the closet system. It seemed to have been really old and the shelves were not the most functional. David painted it to make it look a little nicer, but it still was annoying to have to use the closet. We decided to replace the closet system for new baby- sorry Dax!
We went with something really basic and clean looking since we have a huge dresser on it’s way, and kid’s clothes are so small. Plus, there really wasn’t much more we could do with the space than some shelving, drawers, and hanging space.
All that is left to do with the closet is hang the doors, add the hardware, and most importantly…wash the baby clothes and get them organized!
This is really embarrassing, but also really typical. As we moved Dax into his big boy room, I realized that we never finished his beautiful nursery to begin with. I couldn’t be more annoyed that this poor child was living in an unfinished room for his entire first 2 years of life, but all we could do is make sure that this next baby has a beautiful, perfect, completed room to be born into!
Here is a little refresher of what the nursery looked like when Dax lived in this room. It seriously was my favorite room of the house and made me so sad to have to move him out of it. Logistically, it just makes sense for the baby to be in this room though, and once we moved Dax into his new room and realized that it didn’t fit a glider, we couldn’t have been more pleased with our decision.
Since we don’t know the gender of this baby, it makes it a little difficult to decorate. I have a set vision if it were a boy, and a set vision if it is a girl. With Eli and Dax I wanted something very gender neutral so it made it pretty easy. This is the first time we aren’t moving right before I go into labor, so I want to be as settled as I possibly can and that means making decisions for the room if the baby is a girl, and making decisions if it is a boy. We picked two paint colors and we decided to paint Eli’s old crib assuming it’s a girl, and we purchased a new crib that is returnable assuming it is a boy. That way, when the baby is born, we don’t need to decide on paint colors, or wait 8 weeks for a darn crib to come. We ordered a gender neutral book case and dresser as well which helped with my stress level. It literally took me weeks to make a decision on these two pieces of furniture.
As we emptied the room out to move everything into Dax’s new room, there was a lot more we noticed that was unfinished than we originally anticipated. So, now that we have our paint colors decided, it is time to prep these walls, and complete some other items that never got checked off of our list.
How is it already Monday?! Did you all have a good holiday weekend? Since the 4th was on a Thursday this year, David took Friday off and we headed to the city for the day with the boys. We are trying to take in everything we can before this baby arrives here soonish.
Obviously, the other reason I love long holiday weekends, is because David gets stuff done. He finished painting Dax’s room and it looks so clean and bright. I am really happy we decided to do moldings instead of wallpaper and keep it all white. I know white can be boring, but I think it looks super cool in this room.
We went with Benjamin Moore Chantilly Lace and I really think this is my new favorite white. We are going to do our entire basement in this as well, but more on that later.
With the painting being done, all that is left to do is clean up and move Daxxy into his new room! He is so excited, but it is definitely bitter sweet for me since it means he is that much closer to not being my baby anymore.
We decided to take a trip to the Cayman Islands to kick off summer, celebrate Dax turning two, and to have one last hurrah before the baby arrives. We did a “babymoon” in Maui while I was pregnant with Eli, and Kauai while I was pregnant with Dax. Hawaii is just a bit too far from Chicago, and flying with a 4 and 2 year old for that long sounded miserable. Everyone we talk to seem to love Grand Cayman, so we thought it would be fun and different to try it. We absolutely loved it, and are already counting down until when we can go back! We stayed at the new(er) Kimpton Seafire Resort and Spa and it was not only clean, gorgeous, in a great location, and have unbelievable service, but it was so beyond kid friendly that we were actually feeling like we were on vacation and not just a trip. I highly highly recommend this property!
Now that we are back, reality is setting in and this baby is coming a lot sooner than we are prepared for. It’s time to buckle down and get sh*t done! hopefully there will be plenty of updates coming soon. Until then, enjoy these pictures of paradise